🎁 The 2025 Messy Jesi Holiday Gift Guide
Cozy, Creative, & Curated with Chaos (& Love Duh)
Welcome to the 2025 Messy Jesi aka Nerdy Retreat Gift Guide — where every pick is curated with good vibes, real-life use, & a little ATL flavor.
From feel-good finds by local makers to Amazon favorites I use daily, this guide is your one-stop scroll for thoughtful, fun, & cozy gifts. Whether you’re shopping for your dog, your DIY bestie, or that cousin you barely know but still want to impress, I got you.
🛍️ Some are local or small businesses I truly love, no sponsorship, just vibes.
📦 Some links are affiliate (mainly Amazon). Thank you for supporting this chaotic corner of the internet!
Giving Season: Support That Feels Like a Hug
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Giving Season: Support That Feels Like a Hug ✨
Let’s kick off this guide with gifts that give twice — once to someone you love, & again to the community.
Whether you're grabbing a tree or showing up, volunteering for a local event, this season is all about meaningful moments + mindful support.
🌲 Tree’s for Tuition: Christmas trees, wreaths, & seasonal magic — all for a cause. 100% of profits are donated back to local Atlanta communities. Whether you're decking your halls or gifting greenery to a friend, this one supports more than just your holiday decor.
🎁 P.S. Don’t miss our Holiday giveaway dropping Friday, November 20th, 2025.
💛 Other Ways to Give Back
South River Art Studios experienced a fire recently, show some love.
Dive into → ATL Food + Community Support
Volunteer or donate to ATL orgs that are really making a difference.
🗓 Take a peep → A full Holiday Events Round-Up
But First Coffee
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But First Coffee ☕️
For your early-rising partner or that friend who always knows the best oat milk latte in town. These picks are steeped in comfort (& caffeine). Think cozy mugs, locally roasted beans, & gadgets that make slow mornings feel romantic.
🛍️ Small Biz Picks
Atlanta Roasters & Cafes: Support your fav coffee snob & your city at the same time. Grab a bag of beans from these ATL roasters, or better yet, pair it with a cozy mug for a local-themed gift set.
My Top 3 Picks: Portrait Coffee, Ash Coffee, & Radio Roasters.
Explore my full recs on the blog → From Workdays to Weekends: My ATL Coffee Go-To
Follower Picks: Herbal Health 360, Lil Matcha ATL, Oohmami Matcha, Happily Coffee, Get Frothy.
Open Hands Goods: Handmade ceramics. My go-to’s are the checkered & smiley face mugs.
Cash Ceramics: Handmade ceramic plates, bowls, mugs, & so much more. Display-worthy shelves. My faves are the snakes which you often see in Little Bear.
🛒 Amazon Favorites (affiliate)
Espresso Machine: Easy, chic, & a must for busy mornings. Smaller machine here.
Milk frother wand: Turns any moment into a café moment.
Pinky Out
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Pinky Out 🥂
Follower Picks: Brown Girl Mixers, Get Fizzy ATL.
For the Dog Parents
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For the Dog Parents 🐾
This one's for your pup-obsessed bestie (or let’s be honest — you). Whether it’s spa day essentials, handmade treats, or ATL-based accessories, these picks say: YES, the dog deserves a gift bag too.
🛍️ Small Biz Picks
Pittie & Pom: Handcrafted pet swag made with love. Think reversible bandanas, the kind of style your dog knows they look good in.
Le Woof Bakery: Cute, clean, & baked with love — these ATL-made treat boxes are the kind of gifts your dog will actually lose their mind over. Chic snacks for fancy pups. 🐾💛
🎁 P.S. Don’t miss our upcoming giveaway collab. You can catch them IRL at these upcoming Holiday markets: 12/13 WinterFest in Va-Hi, 12/14 in Summerhill, 12/20 the Shed at Ponce City Market.
It’s Laura Boisson: Custom paracord collars & leashes that are as sturdy as they are stylish. 10/10 recommend.
Zoomin Groomin Decatur: Mobile grooming service for that fresh-cut glow-up — ideal for gifting a “spa day” to fellow dog parents.
Park Pet Supply: An East Atlanta staple for ALL things pets. They’re running in-store small-business deals for the holidays, & your pup can literally taste-test the treats. Bonus: They donate proceeds throughout the year to local orgs, so your shopping does good, too.
Follower Picks: Blue Grass Shopper Creations.
🛒 Amazon Favorites (affiliate) → Tap here for rescue pups essentials
Cute Dog Bed: Waterproof, funky designs, & washable covers for quick clean-ups.
TropiClean Grooming Wipes: Great for muddy paws & post-park cleanups.
Eqyss Avocado Mist: My go-to for a shiny, hydrated coat (Ozzy-approved).
Dog nail trimmers with safety guard: Essential (& anxiety-reducing).
Interactive dog toys: Mental stimulation = calm, happy pup.
Slow feeder bowls or puzzle toys: For enrichment that doesn’t involve shoes.
Buddy Budder Pancakes: A weekend tradition in my pittie house.
For the Book Lover: Curl Up + Get Lost
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For the Book Lover: Curl Up + Get Lost 📚
This one’s for your friend who always has a tote full of paperbacks, smells every candle before buying it, & has strong opinions about dog-earing pages. Whether they’re into indie bookstores, comics, or just love a good cozy reading setup, these gifts say: "go ahead & romanticize your life bby."
🛍️ Small Biz Picks
Support your local shelves this season & grab a gift card, tote, or stack of recs from these ATL gems.
My Top 3 Picks: Bookish, Atlanta Vintage Books, & All the Tropes Bookstore.
Snag your next read → Must-Visit Bookstores & Comic Shops
Follower Picks: Kristens Creations.
For the Homebody Who Loves a Good Glow-Up
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For the Homebody Who Loves a Good Glow-Up 🛋️
This one’s for the friend whose perfect night includes a cozy robe, soft lighting, & rearranging their living room for the third time this week. Whether they’re a self-care Queen, a dopamine decor devotee, or just love making their space feel extra lived-in, these finds bring the cozy + the cute.
🛍️ Small Biz Picks
Tinned Candle: The original tinned fish candle hand-poured in small batches.
Follower Picks: Lilit, Bode & EV, Little Bird Apothecary, Candleporium Frangerence House, House of Nambili, Boddo Studio, Reporter Design.
👛 Laney Space Funky Fun Rugs (affiliate)
I’ve raved about these before — they’re different, super cozy underfoot, & way cuter than your average rugs.
Tomato rug runner: This viral, irregular-shaped runner is instant dopamine decor. It's the perfect way to add a bold, non-committal pop of color to your kitchen. My new obsession. It’s functional & highly photographable.
Ticket abstract rug: This feels like walking on a memory. The unique abstract design looks exactly like a giant, event stub. Perfect for the sentimental homebody who loves a stylish conversation piece.
🛒 Amazon Favorites (affiliate) → Browse my interior home products
Washable rugs: Great for pet homes... & life messes.
Velvet curtain panels: Instant upgrade, luxe-approved bang for buck & often on sale.
Glass essential oil diffuser with timer: Pretty enough to live on your shelf. Easy to clean, quiet, & perfect for setting the mood.
Non-toxic essential oil set: A mix of lavender, citrus, & cozy seasonal blends without the synthetic after-smell.
💛 Messy Jesi Tip: Pair a diffuser, oil set, & candle into a little “glow-up kit” basket. Add matches & a handwritten note for an extra warm touch.
For the DIYer + Design Lover
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For the DIYer + Design Lover 🛠️
This one’s for the friend who has a paint sample stash, talks about “accent walls” like they’re people. Whether they rent or own, this list is packed with renter-friendly upgrades, stylish tools, & design-forward finds that fuel the glow-up.
🛍️ Small Biz Picks
Rustic Roots Reclaimed: Custom reclaimed wood shelves. Functional & feel-good, especially when sourced from local makers.
I’ll Be Seeing You: A moody, ethereal curation of vintage pieces that feel like a portal. Think rich textures, romantic silhouettes, & timeless pieces for your inner old soul.
Follower Picks: Abena Designs, Reflektion Design.
🛒 Amazon Favorites (affiliate) → Browse my store front
DIY products & tools: Beginner friendly.
Peel-&-stick wallpaper: For bold accent walls without commitment. Great for renters or indecisive decorators.
LED picture light: Gallery wall glow-up for under $30.
Gold hardware upgrade kits: Transform cabinets, dressers, or old Ikea furniture.
For the Creative or Sentimental Type
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For the Creative or Sentimental Type 🖼️
The one who still sends postcards, has a camera roll full of murals, & makes birthday cards from scratch. Whether they’re into funky prints, memory-making gifts, or filling their walls with stories, this section is all heart + a little sparkle.
🛍️ Small Biz Picks
Gabeaux: One of my favorite Atlanta artists. Their work makes a statement every time.
Prfenstein: Mixed-media magic. From journals to home decor, everything here feels handcrafted & intentional.
Tommy Bronx: Pure color and ATL pride. Whether it’s a print, mural, or painting, it brings joy.
Veazey Studio: The Atlanta rap map you didn’t know you needed.
A Shop Downtown (Poorly Drawn Pets): $5 ugly custom pet portraits.
Follower Picks: Stiber Art & Design, Sunday In Bloom, Jaeson Not Jason, ELM Art, Pointless Scre8s.
🛒 Amazon Favorites (affiliate) → Browse my store front
Vintage vibes only: My frame faves.
For the Foodie (or Takeout Queen) in Your Life
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For the Foodie (or Takeout Queen) in Your Life 🍴
You know the one. Their fridge is always stocked with something marinating, or they have the best frozen meal recs. Whether they’re in their home-cooking era or just vibing with beautifully plated takeout, these picks are equal parts practical + indulgent.
🛍️ Small Biz Picks
Beksa Lala: Handmade, rolled out, & stuffed with Polish love, these frozen pierogis are the comfort food you didn’t know you needed. Preorders available for 12/13 pickup at PQS, & stocked throughout December.
Get to know the heart behind the pierogis → Polish Soul, Atlanta Hustle: Beksa Lala’s Comfort Food Star
La Bodega ATL: Frozen pupusas made with love. Easy to gift, easier to eat. Noms.
Viennoiseries After Dark: French pastries with a decadent, late-night twist. Think flaky croissants, savory surprises, and viral-worthy bites. A moody, indulgent add-on for any foodie gift set.
Bob’s Boards: Custom wood cutting boards that double as kitchen decor. Perfect for charcuterie spreads, foodie gifts, or making leftovers look fancy AF.
Follower Picks: Casseroles ATL, Savage Pizza L5P.
🧺 Bonus: Shop Atlanta’s Local Markets
From heirloom produce to handmade pantry goods, these Atlanta farmers markets, butchers, & mini markets are bursting with giftable finds for the foodie in your life.
Discover → Atlanta’s Best Farmers Markets, Butchers, & Mini Markets
💛 Messy Jesi Tip: Build a gift basket from Grant Park Farmers Market vendors.
Grab fresh pasta
Include local jam, pickles, or sauce from a mini market
Slip in a cute reusable market tote 😉
Follower Picks: June Dragon Fly Box.
🛒 Amazon Favorites (affiliate) → Browse my store front
Baking Must-Haves: Silicone mats, cookie scoops, & measuring sets for the one who’s elbows deep in flour by mid-December. It’s me… = chaos-controlled baking.
Le Creuset: For the one who bakes like it’s a love language. It’s a splurge — but well worth it.
My Go-To Knives: Sharp, reliable, & cute enough for an open shelf.
Charcuterie Board Tools: Little cheese knives, ramekins, & labels = party-ready.
💛 Messy Jesi Tip: Bundle a jar of local honey, some Bob’s Board flair, & a cozy baking dish for the ultimate foodie love language starter pack.
For the Creator, Hustler, or Your Work-From-Couch Bestie
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For the Creator, Hustler, or Your Work-From-Couch Bestie 💻
They’ve got five tabs open, three side hustles in progress, & still manage to color-code their calendar. Whether they’re editing videos, managing emails from a blanket fort, or launching their next idea — these cozy-meets-productive picks are for your favorite overachiever with a soft life soul.
🛍️ Small Biz Picks
Atlanta coffee shop swag: Branded merch: A cozy crewneck or hat with a travel tumbler.
💛 Messy Jesi Tip: Pair these with a gift card to a coffee shop they can use as their second office.
🛒 Amazon Favorites (affiliate) → Browse my store front
Bose Noise-Canceling Headphones: For deep focus mode, editing days, or blocking out your roommate’s Zoom call. Sleek, comfy, & game-changing.
Content Creation Essentials: Gimbal, lights, & mics.
Lap Desk: Comfy enough for a couch CEO, complete with a built-in cushion + device slots.
Plant Parents Who’s Basically a Jungle Curator
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Plant Parents Who’s Basically a Jungle Curator 🪴
They talk to their plants. They name them. They’ve got a propagation jar in every window. Welcome to Jumanji. Whether they’re a seasoned green thumb or just got their first pothos, these gifts help them grow their own little indoor jungle — with love, light, & a little extra misting.
Small Biz Picks (non-affiliate):
Nourish in Botanica: Gem for gorgeous greenery, thoughtful vibes, & wellness-forward plant energy. Bonus: Dried florals for decorating.
Bed Head Plants: Uniquely potted, often funky, always fabulous. Check her out t farmers markets & her posted workshops.
Pink Pothos ATL: A Pittsburgh Yard gem. Super fun ATL-based biz known for bright, planty setups & pop-ups in the container yard. Great for rare finds + custom plant moments.
🪴 Notes: All of these small biz picks are Black-owned & ATL-based. Support the plant lovers + the community!
Follower Picks: Abundance Landscapes + Gardens, The Moss Doctor.
🛒 Amazon Favorites (affiliate)
Plant spray bottle: Extra points because it’s glass & comes in a cute amber tone.
For the One Who’s Deep in Their Clean Era (But Actually Cares About Ingredients)
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For the One Who’s Deep in Their Clean Era (But Actually Cares About Ingredients) 🛁
They’re the friend who reads every label, loves a product haul, & won’t settle for anything less than nourishing. These gifts support their soft skin, glowy self-care routine, & ingredient-conscious lifestyle — no sketchy chemicals here.
🛍️ Small Biz Picks
Refij Aesthetics: A holistic esthetician offering sensitive-skin-friendly facials, waxing, & true glow-ups. Your skin will thank you.
Kastone Natural Beauty: Ingredient-conscious. Think lush body butters, oils, & everything your skin craves.
68th & Monroe: A luxe take on clean body care & fragrance — perfect for gifting or keeping (because, same).
Notes: 💛 All of these small biz picks are Black-owned & ATL-based. Support the glow-up + the community!
Follower Picks: Kraftz by Kadin, Smokestack Wax, Hey Butterfly Studio, The Rosefinch Spa & Store, Becalm Botanicals.
🛒 Amazon Favorites (affiliate) → Browse my store front
Aveeno Calm + Restore Face Wash: A gentle, non-stripping cleanser perfect for sensitive skin types.
Aveeno Calm + Restore Exfoliating Scrub: The only physical scrub I trust for smooth, hydrated skin.
Tirtir Milk Skin Rice Toner: Nature-oriented toner that moisturizes & hydrates.
For the Jewelry Lovers
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For the Jewelry Lovers ✨
For the ones who love to stack, sparkle, & make a statement. Whether their vibe is maximalist or minimalist, these ATL makers + chic accessories bring main character energy to any outfit.
🛍️ Small Biz Picks
Duality Clique: Pieces with meaning, made to layer. For the ones who balance soft + strong.
Sincerely Fearless: Loud, proud, & unapologetically fierce. This ATL-based brand serves bold earrings, hoops, & empowering accessories for baddies.
Notes: 💛 Black-Owned, Atlanta-based.
Quirky Bird: The kind of small maker where every piece feels personal — handmade quirky earrings that are a must-have.
Follower Picks: Agape Gems, Oh So Fitting, Erica Frances Art, Heather Greenway Jewelry, Palettes & Petals, Southern Oak Trading, Ed Fountain, Shop Kamawe, Steve West, Tt’s Trinkets, Artisan Samira, Bellalu Jewelry, ULC.
🛒 Amazon Favorites (affiliate)
Travel jewelry case: Aesthetic, compact, & perfect for on-the-go besties.
Jewelry display stand: For that “dressing room goddess” vibe.
For the Artsy Ones
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For the Artsy Ones 🎨
They’re the friend who owns four glue guns, has a washi tape collection, & somehow makes crafting look cool. Whether they’re painting, sewing, or DIY-ing their way through the holidays, this section is packed with thoughtful, creative gifts.
🛍️ Small Biz Picks
Have Some More ATL: Bright, bold, & bursting with nostalgia. This glass artist serves up colorful pieces that’ll make your inner child do cartwheels.
Beanie Made It: Whimsical, handmade, & full of charm. Their art feels like a cozy craft night with your coolest friend.
Get crafty→ ATL Creatives Guide
Follower Picks: Swilly Bug.
For the One Who’d Rather Thrift It Than Click It
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For the One Who’d Rather Thrift It Than Click It 🪩
From fringe jackets to upcycled plates, this section is for the vintage lover who finds magic in the pre-loved & personality in the perfectly worn-in. These ATL vintage curators serve looks, vibes, & heirloom energy.
🛍️ Small Biz Picks
Lights Camera Vintage: Vintage for the main character. Statement pieces, bold styling, & cinematic flair. Whether it’s 80s drama or Y2K realness, LCV delivers wearable nostalgia with an edge.
Follower Picks: Disco UFO, Table for Two Vintage, 4 The Luc of Unicornz, Bella Beautiful Boutique.
🧵 Bonus: Want more Atlanta spots to thrift, swap, or score secondhand home goods? → Where ATL Creators Shop Vintage
Follower Picks: The Hotspot Sugarhill.
Unique Shops & More
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Unique Shops & More 👛
Follower Picks: Swan Space, Wander State Co., Maelu Designs.
BONUS: Stocking Stuffers
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BONUS: Stocking Stuffers ✨
🛍️ Small Biz Picks
Powerful Pepper Co: Flavor with a kick & ATL soul. These small-batch hot sauces, jams, & spices are handmade with fresh, local ingredients — & make the perfect gift for your spice-loving bestie or that uncle who thinks he can handle heat.
More Stocking-Friendly Picks (from other sections):
Stickers or keychains from ATL artists
Gift cards to small businesses
Dog treats by Le Woof Bakery
Mini candles from Tinned
Bandanas from Pittie & Pom
Jewelry add-ons or essential oil rollers
🛒 Amazon Favorites (affiliate)
Mini hot sauce sampler: For your hot sauce hoe phase.
Silicone wine stoppers: Cute + practical = win.
Pocket-size chapsticks: Luxe but affordable.
Reusable straw sets or travel utensils: For your on-the-go sustainability queen.

